Posted by on Jul 14, 2016 | 16 comments

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY, NAN!

AND HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO PHOEBE, TOO.

Well, I’m mixing a couple of languages there and I have to admit to borrowing this wonderful photo from France Today (for which mama did an article but I don’t know when it’s coming out yet), but it is Bastille Day in France even if we are here and I think there is some small celebration here in Rome at the French Embassy tonight, maybe a few sparklers and such, or…CHAMPAGNE?  Now you’re talkin’.

I actually only like the feel of the buggles, I mean, bubbles, typo, but it they do feel like buggles, don’t they?

It is also the birthday of mama’s oldest friend, Nan, (not in age of course but oldest as in school days) so bonne anniversaire to her, too!  And her kitty, Lena, whom you have met before because mama thinks she looks like HER, Lena’s, mama, the one with the birthday, also celebrates HERS with her mama. Sweet and shiny eyes, has that kitty…(lyrics to a song her mama wrote that became famous).

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And upon request, a few more shots of this summery lovely city just because.

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Another guy throwing a ball!  Maybe at the other guy in the other blog, haha.

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Home, to someone in Rome.  People leave money in the basket, and no one steals it.

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Three bariste (bar tenders)–an all-female bar! And they make GREAT espresso, creamy and thick.

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The little Bernini elephant, turning is back (and tail!) on the building in the background, giving a raspberry (of sorts) to the monks who insisted that Bernini put a base on the statue or it would collapse, and he did NOT wish to, so he voiced his reaction in the sculpture. The tail of the little pachyderm is lifted in a gesture of ^$%#&%^ you to the monks.  He was Bernini, after all, and he knew a little bit about making statues, no?

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The fountain at the Pantheon where anthro kids hang out in the evening to keep cool and where other anthros meet friends and people-watch.

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Known as The Wedding Cake, this was built by Mussolini (can’t you tell, a little over the top, right?) to honor the last kind of Italy, Vittorio Emanuele, and it houses wonderful art exhibits.  Also a good place to exercise (not I, of course) up and down the stairs!

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Today I would like to direct you to It’s Noodle and the very moving quote about how black people see white people.  It is formidable.  And mama says she thinks always about how black people have to bend themselves out of shape for a white world and that she will never, never give up that thought because if whites are expecting other people of color to fit into their ideas of how others should behave or think or live their lives, they had better think again.

Papa says that he, as a white man, living in Los Angeles for many years, was always very aware that if a policeman stops you anywhere, anytime, you are to keep your hands on the steering wheel, answer politely, and wait for instructions without doing anything sudden or abrupt or saying anything that would be contentious.  Police officers have to contend daily with people who could or could not be dangerous, could or could take their lives or the lives of others, and they must be treated with respect and consideration for what they face in their jobs.  That said, yes, there are some policemen who are not what a policeman should be, there are some who are rough and angry, there are some who could not be weeded out in training who become heartless in their jobs, and yes, they are dangerous cops, but the job is one of the toughest on earth, and no, it should not be used as grounds for killing blacks, whites, browns or anyone, and yes, it would be utopia if all bad cops could be taken off the force, and yes, it would a miracle if all those stopped by cops could say please and thank you and yes, communication would save many, many lives.  BUT…it’s not that way. Yet.  And may never be.  But when 70% of Americans feel there is still strong racism in our country, we have a big problem.  Being a good cop helps.  Being a good individual helps.  But being aware is more important–aware of differences, aware of racism and prejudice, and guess what?  Only you can fix that.

Please take a look at It’s Noodle today.

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Some days it just feels better to say in bed.

But do go to this very moving site.